Bullying Stories – For Children Who Dare to be Different

Girl gets egged by bulliesBullying stories contain many themes.

Related to bullying are themes like coming of age, loneliness, isolation, and fear.

These themes relate to the difficulties of ‘fitting in’ within the complicated social environment that exists within schools.


My children’s story, The Tree Hugger, now included in my children’s collection: When Things Go Wonky, shares these themes.

In the story, the main character, Debbie, watches what happens when a new girl, Shalmalah, comes to her school.


Cover of When Things Go Wonky by Grace Jolliffe illustrating bullying storiesDebbie witnesses Shalmalah being quickly isolated and bullied by other girls because she doesn’t follow fashion, or do her hair the way the other girls do.

Shalmalah dares to be different.

Debbie understands the need to fit in and therefore also understands why Shalmalah is bullied.

Although Debbie knows the bullying is wrong she wants Shalmalah, not the bullies, to change.

Debbie doesn’t want to confront the bullies herself, she prefers to avoid them.

Debbie wants Shalmalah to do the same thing – to make an effort to fit in and avoid trouble just like she does.

Debbie is simply expressing the idea that many people hold towards those who are bullied –  that it is the bullied who must change, not the bully.

This is an idea commonly expressed in stories about bullying.

As a writer and as a human being I feel strongly that it is bullies that need to change.

Bullies need to understand the insecurities that stop them accepting other people as they are.

In my opinion, telling a child that is being bullied that they must change – is like telling them they are to blame.


Fear, courage, and shame figure hugely in bullying stories.

As ‘The Tree Hugger‘ story progresses we see that Debbie knows full well that what is going on with Shalmalah is wrong.

She feels guilty, yet she is afraid to stand up for her because knows she will be bullied as well.

This fear leads to feelings of shame at not being able to defend Shalmalah.

This theme of fear runs throughout, and each of the characters experiences it, albeit in different ways.

Debbie fears to have to cope with loneliness and isolation like Shalmalah and she also fears the physical pain that the bullies might inflict on her.

Shalmalah is living Debbie’s fears  – she is isolated and bullied but she is actually coping with fear very well.

Despite the bullying, she displays strength and determination by refusing to change herself in any way.

Shalmalah knows she has the right to ‘just be’ whoever she is and displays great courage in her response.

The theme of shame is introduced when Debbie meets Shalmalah in the presence of her mother.

Debbie realizes that Shalmalah is protecting her widowed mother from worry by lying to her about her experiences in her school.

Debbie experiences shame at her own lack of courage and it is this shame, combined with her admiration of Shalmalah’s courage that begins to bring about changes in Debbie’s character.

Many parents have found that approaching the subject of bullying indirectly, through sharing a story, is an easier way to open up this sensitive subject with their children.

Bullying Stories

I hope that reading The Tree Hugger as well as the other stories included in this collection will help parents support children who are being targeted by bullies.

The Tree Hugger is one of eight stories in the collection: When Things Go Wonky.

Cover of When Things Go Wonky by Grace Jolliffe illustrating bullying stories



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